I know there are people who have their own personal mission statement and core values. They have goals and strategies to reach those personal goals. Let me tell you, I have rolled my eyes long and hard about that. I mean really. How very precious. Honestly, isn't everyone's mission to get through this life in one piece? Core values? How about staying alive? Getting through the day? If it works for you, more power to you. I'm not interested.
You know where this is going, don't you?
Yeah... the core values chickens have come home to roost.
Yeah... the core values chickens have come home to roost.
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In May I signed up for a personal coaching program based on the recommendation of someone whose opinion I very much respect. Like, I didn't even google this program, that's how much I respect this person's opinion. He recommended it and I signed up. Just like that.
I like the program quite a bit, but there was just one thing. The program includes identifying your personal core values. I sighed deeply. I pretended that I didn't read that part of the book. I went forward with the other parts of the program. After 5 weeks, I wasn't getting very far.
I went back to the core values section and made myself go through the steps. That's when I realized I knew what my core values were and I've know for most of my life. I never called them core values. I don't think I called them anything. Maybe, if pressed, I'd come up with something like "firmly held beliefs." Anyway, I still think the whole thing is a little precious, so I googled "synonym core values" and "moral philosophy" was one of the choices. I like that much more.
So what is my personal moral philosophy?
1. I respect the inherent dignity of all people. This applies to everyone, whether I like them or not. There's plenty of times that I have to remind myself of this. I'm wrestling with this with a particular person that I don't especially like right now. Liking someone isn't a criteria for respecting their innate humanity. But this person is a part of God's creation, so who am I to judge. Just because it's my personal moral philosophy doesn't mean I'm perfect.
2. Why do it if it isn't fun? This is not as flip as it sounds. We are given one precious life. We need to make the most of it. It should be filled with laughter, joy, goodness. In the Creation stories, God pronounces his work "good." He takes a break on the seventh day. God is not a fan of drudgery. God takes a day to kick back and enjoy his work. I think fun fits in nicely with a sound, moral life.
So that's my personal, moral philosophy. I've got more to say, but not now.
I'd like to end with another chicken. It made me laugh.


Oh, that second chicke photo... I did, I busted out with a belly laugh! Love your personal moral philosophy. It is close to my own. It's part of that whole "kindred spirit" thing.
ReplyDeleteBut when they try to apply these things to artificial groups? Like employees of a large corporation? Down to the "department" or "team" level? And the individuals come from diverse backgrounds? And most of them, "survival" is a core value... seriously! I could FEEL the eyeroll.
Good job translating for those of us who have been in those required planning sessions!